Traveling with kids: Planning our Road Trip

Washington_Crossing_Deleware-public domain imageI love to travel.  I like visiting with friends and family, meeting new people, seeing new things and just the general thrill of doing something different – broadening my horizons.  I even like traveling with the kids.  Yes, it is a lot of work, but you know…it is a lot of work at home too!  At least when I travel, I get to visit lots of cool places while I work!

We are currently on a BIG road trip.  We are traveling in our van for a month long sojourn along the East Coast.  We are visiting family and friends and lots of American History sites.  Homeschooling gives us the great advantage of being able to travel like this – what a cool ending to our two years of American History studies. Paine_Thomas-public domain image

I will be posting more about how we do it, how I pack for a month long trip, how we travel with 9 children, how we visit major sites, what we do and how it works with so many little ones.   This post is about the planning.

I probably started mentally preparing and planning the trip about 2 months in advance.  Thinking about the people that we wanted to see and the main sites that I didn’t want to miss.  I did not do anything formal, just started putting things together in my mind (while I was doing the laundry!). Jefferson_Thomas public domain image

I was thinking about the ages of the kids, especially Nicholas, and what capabilities and sleeping patterns they would be at.  These are critical points to consider for how the trip would go.  How would each child be sleeping, how much walking could they do (especially the 2 -4 year olds), and how would everyone be eating.  Again, most of the concerns would involve the baby and the littlest ones. Washington_portrait_on_horseback-public domain image

 Based on those thoughts, I decided to make sure that we did not encourage Nicholas (9months old now) to crawl, that I should start him on bits of table foods (so he could ”last a little longer” on a drive or busy day), and that I would not get him overly settled into a daily nap routine.    A quick note about crawling babies: if avoidable, you do not want to travel with a crawling baby, you never know what is on the floors you will be visiting and a crawling baby has a taste for self mobility that really makes him/her intolerant of inactivity.   So, if I could keep Nicholas from learning to crawl and get him feeding himself crackers or biter biscuits (and hopefully taking a sippy cup) all would be golden for him and the timing of the trip.Bunker_Hill public domain image

My thoughts and plans then lingered to the smaller children, how would things look for them and what could I do to make anything better.  Main thing – put off potty training…diapers are great for trips!  I would even consider putting my 3 year old back into diapers, actually all of them back into diapers!  There is nothing that can fluster me faster than everyone or some of them having to go to the potty at a bad time! Gettysburg_Address public domain image

We then started working on drinking from a regular cup and sitting in regular chairs (for those times that we would be visiting with people that did not have “toddler friendly” ware.  Of course, I also planned to bring some travel sippy cups, but I like to be ready for anything! 

For all the kids, I started working hard on manners and general obediance.  I tell the kids often that if they want to do fun stuff, they have to obey.  We can’t go places and do things if they are not able to do what we tell them to do.  I can’t even imagine how awful it would be if they all were routinely disobediant and didn’t follow our requests.  We would definitely not be able to safely go places.General_Stonewall_Jackson public domain image

I also started talking to the kids about eating different foods and how to avoid some embarrassing situations (topics, questions, etc.)

About a month before the trip, I really started looking at the dates and pulling the schedule together.  We started notifying friends and family and figuring out who would be available for visiting.Robert_Edward_Lee public domain image

To be continued….

How I Do It…Packing for Traveling with Kids.

Again, I really like to travel.  But, I have to say…packing is my least favorite part of traveling.

There are a few things that I like about packing.

- I get to chose most of my kids clothes, and that means that they all match (yes, I have that “gotta match” disease) or at least color coordinate.

- The clothing routine is simplified, there is only so much room for taking clothes.

And that’s about it, I can’t think of anything else that I like about packing!

So, how do I pack for all of those kids?

I have discovered a few basic principals about packing.

1. The more time I give myself, the more things that I pack!  Essentially, the more time I take to pack, the more “essentials” and “just in cases” I find to take with us.  When I take less time, I tend to take the bare minimums, pack less and worry less.  Both methods have their pros and cons.  There have been times that I was very greatful for the “just in case” items I added in and there have been times when those items were never used and took up valuable space.  And, pleny of times, I have had to make a run to the store, borrow some undies, or swap clothes among kids when I packed in short amounts of time.  Just in case your wondering about some time estimates – I packed for a month for a trip to Costa Rica and I have packed in 2 hours for a week long trip to visit family in Virginia.Baggage

2. I pack differently for different types of trips.  A trip to visit family in VA is not packed the same as a trip with a flight or a trip where we will be making lots of stops at different houses or hotels.

-For trips to visit family where we will be staying in one home, I find it best to pack all of the pajamas in one bag (duffle bag style – they are more flexible for shoving under seats!), all my medium girls clothes in one bag, the small boys clothes in one bag and my big three each pack their own small bag (they might stay the night at a cousin’s house).  If we will be taking a day trip to visit somewhere else, I will just grap the pajama bag (which I pack with extra diapers and pull-ups) just in case we stay late.

-For a house/hotel hopping trip, I will pack a bag for each day.  So, everyone’s clothes and pajamas for one day will go into one bag (if possible!).  That way, when we get to the hotel/house, we grap just one bag or two if I couldn’t get mine and my husband’s stuff in there also.  This takes a little more preplannig, but it definitely pays off in the end.  It does not work well when staying in one home, as the clothes wind up totally unorganized and I spend way too much vacation time trying to put them back in order.

-Packing for a flight trip requires even more skill.  Less space and less bags makes packing kind-of tricky!  My biggest issue is trying to stay organized with all the clothes and stuff.  The most useful thing I have found to help with this is plastic bags – grocery and ziploc.  I try to organize by day or by child or by matching outfits and put whichever ensemble into a plastic bag.  Then I put the bags, after squeezing as much air as possible out, into a large suitcase.  The suitcase winds up looking like it is stuffed with a bunch of grocery bags.  I use ziplocs for the smaller things, like socks, underwear, bathing suits, hair accessories, etc.  As the trip goes along, I always use the bags for other things, like dirty clothes, dirty diapers, extra trash, wet clothes, and more organizing.

-Diapers!  For all types of travel, I usually pack a few days worth of diapers and then plan to buy more wherever we are going.  This is a good plan for anything that I may have forgotten or just didn’t have time or space to pack.  We have picked up umbrella strollers and left them behind, entertaining methods (dvds, sticker books, games, toys), snacks, extra cups, toothbrushes, and jackets.

All this talk about traveling is really getting to me….where can I go, where can I go, when…

(To tell the honest truth, if I could do anything right now – I would be heading down to Haiti with a shovel and doing anything to help.  Someone that I used to volunteer with had just arrived there the day before the earthquake, his wife is still waiting to hear from him.  My prayers and my heart have been heavy today.)

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