“Don’t rinse your dishes, you’re wasting water”–your best salespeople are often not your salesmen

A couple of years ago we were having trouble with the dishwasher not getting dishes clean.  Since it was getting on in age and the problem was getting worse, we bit the bullet and bought a new Kitchenaid.

The thing seemed to work great, but then started also having trouble getting the dishes clean.  We finally called the company and they sent out some service technicians to run some tests.

Now, let me take a break and explain something most Moms probably know, but I was not aware of, even with my engineering background.  In general, a few things are needed for automatic cleaning, whether it is a dishwasher, or clothes washer, or carwash, or whatever:

1) water

2) detergent

3) heat

4) motion or agitation

Ideally, you have all four things.  Having less results in less than optimal cleaning power.

It turns out the problem was not really with the dishwasher.  It was our pipes.  You see, the water heater was on one end of the house and the kitchen was on the exact opposite end, and the hot water line was not insulated.  So, as we were approaching winter at the time, the hot water ran through a long stretch uninsulated line in the crawlspace below the house.  As such, the water was cold when it reached the kitchen.  I eventually got it insulated, but in the meantime we were shown we could run the water 2-3 minutes in the kitchen sink to get it hot enough, and then the dishwasher cleaned great.

Please don't rinse your dishes--you're wasing water!! OK, enough with the ‘cleaning engineering’ lesson.  That’s a cute story, but the real reason I am writing this is that the repair men were the best SALESMEN for the Kitchenaid brand.  These guys were unintentional salesmen in that they were not pitching to sell (we had already bought the machine), but the way they talked about it was great.  They, like most repairmen, had been ‘around the block’ and serviced all sorts of appliances.  They said they were most happy with the quality and ease of repair of their brand.  Most of the time a repair was not needed, just an education for the consumer (as in my case).

The best thing was this:  the model we bought had a built-in disposal, so they kept telling us “Please, don’t rinse your dishes; you are wasting water!”  This thrilled Robyn, and it actually took us a while to break the habit of pre-rinsing the dishes until they were spotless (that’s how bad the old dishwasher was getting).

Since then we have moved and fixed up a house or two, and I now typically put a Kitchenaid dishwasher in when a new one is needed and when it will fit.

The bottom line is to know your ‘salesmen’ are not always your best sales people.  Your ‘front line’  people (receptionist, delivery person, repair person) should be treated well and understand that they typically have more points of contact with customers than salesmen, and THEY are the ones who will determine whether or not you get repeat customers.

Tips: The power of a SMILE.

Relationships are important to me, I am a relational lady.  I am always looking for ways to improve my relationship with my children, my husband and business associates.

My most recent endeavor to improve relations is to smile.  I know, it is such a common thing and everyone knows that it is good to smile at others.  But, I have been noticing and feeling a downward trend in my own face.  I feel myself noticeably scowling with my outer lips drawn down.  I am not generally intending to frown or scowl, nor am I feeling down, but I still am wearing a frown.  This is not what I want my children to see!  This is not what I want my husband to see!

Who can resist a grin like this?

So, I am making a very conscious effort to smile.  Even if it is fake!  My husband can handle it, but I especially want my children to remember my face as happy, bright and smiling (at them!).  I admit, I have to practice smiling!  My husband looked at me the other day (with a sheepish smile on his face) and asked “What are you smiling about”.  “Oh, nothing”, I said, “I was just practicing”.  That’s how hard I am working at this.  And, I know that it is effective, my husband was smiling because he noticed my smile.  It may not be so easy with my kids, they notice everything and I have to really make the smiling a habit to have it make a lasting impression.

Smiling is powerful.

A dreamy smile can make your day.

The top marketing gurus recommend that you smile while making marketing calls.  A smile can be “heard”, it can be detected and will improve your reception and sales.  And of course, the smile is key for marketing in face to face or tradeshow settings.  Confidence, acceptance and assurance are portrayed through a simple smile.

I grew up hearing the advice that smiling is good for your face, it exercises more of the muscles that keep you looking younger.  Hey, I am all for that!

Those little emoticons and sideways smileys ;) that sprinkle our emails, posts, and tweets are the essence of the smile.  They are a little smile that we pass on, in hopes of adding a little joy to someone else’s day.

Happy Brothers

And the smile that we have for our children is priceless.  Such a small gesture… it can calm a broken heart, soothe an aching finger, warm a cold shoulder, soften a hard nose.  In my own heart, it shifts the frustration, calms the retribution, forgives a thousand little wrongs and gives me just the extra moment I need to reset my emotions to where they need to be.

And with my husband, a smile can go way, way, way far.  Misunderstandings are avoided by a little smile, love is shared, and adventures are planned – all in the twinkle of a smile.

Ice cream smile

So, put on those smiles…I will be practicing!